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Resisting Detachment
Examine Your Attachments







Let's face it! Resisting detachment is second nature to us. We have grown up with certain wants, beliefs and ideas that we just don't want to give up, but it's time to examine your attachments so that you can peacfully and joyfully let them go.

People, places and things flow in and out of our lives constantly and we feel that without these attachments we won't have anything. But we need to dig deep to understand why we form attachments that we think we can't live without.

Detachment Has Its Rewards...

Being detached has its rewards. It will allow you to let go so that you are in harmony with the universe and are able to trust the intelligence that created all of us. Letting go and surrendering to this trust should make you a stronger person so there would be no need to cling to these attachments.

I would like to give you several reasons why you may be resisting detachment and you can decide for yourself if you happen to fall within any of these categories...

  • You have trouble trusting the universe or Source to provide the things you want or need.
  • You believe that suffering in some way is what you need to do.
  • You work hard all your life, denying yourself because you expect some reward in the future.
  • You believe detaching means not having anything or giving up what you have.
  • You think being detached is having an indifferent, non-caring attitude.

Now I would like to address each of the above categories so you can see why you are resisting detachment, and give you some tips on how you may be able to overcome them.

Resisting Detachment Tip One

Resisting detachment is easy when it comes to trust, and trusting the universe or Source to supply your needs and wants can be very difficult. A lot of people didn't get the lesson on trusting a higher Source and have trouble believing in an unseen power to supply them with anything! Instead they were taught to get everything they could and don't let anyone take it away from them.

To get past this, you have to make a serious decision. Is this the way you want to live your life... working to get, then worrying about keeping someone from taking it from you! You have to examine your beliefs about putting trust in an unseen power, and think about how it would feel to have this powerful force working for you! Helping to deliver the life you've always wanted and not having to worry about who will steal it from you!

Take one step and one situation at a time. Try putting your trust in this power to help you. Detach from the situation, don't try to handle it yourself, then wait and watch for what happens. I have discovered this really and truly works. Hopefully it will work for you!

Resisting Detachment Tip Two

Having an attachment to suffering seems to be wrong on so many levels. I can't concieve of anyone wanting to purposely suffer, but there are some people out there who think this is the way to live. Again, this is what we were taught, and now people have grown up believing this!

Again! Examine your attachments. Why do you believe you have to live a life of suffering. Ask yourself what purpose is there for living this way, and what do you expect to gain from suffering. If you have explored anything about the spiritual and metaphysical world, you now know that you have a choice to live a life filled with success, happiness, health and love... that does not have to include suffering. Give yourself a chance to believe that there is another way to live.

Resisting Detachment Tip Three

When it comes to your attachment to working hard, I guess it's a personal preference, becuase there are actually some people who enjoy this. However, you need to ask yourself the all important question... what do you expect your future reward to be, that you can't have it now. Another important thing is knowing that there are other choices you can make instead of working harder.

My philosophy has always been 'work smarter, not harder,' and I'll stand behind that belief any day of the week. Why wait for a future reward when you can have that reward now! For those of you who are tired and want a better way, it's time to change your ingrained beliefs, philosophy and attachment to working hard... and change it to one of detachment and working smarter.

Resisting Detachment Tip Four

Some people are resisting detachment because they still believe it means giving up everything they have! Or not having anything! What a cursed belief to have!

Know that you don't have to give up anything, and that being detached simply puts everything into perspective and gives you the freedom from being manipulated by NEEDING the attachments! When you base your success on the things you have accumulated or the people you know, then it becomes very hard to detach from them. By making detachment part of your life, it gives you a chance to experience more abundance not scarcity, and it's really your attachment to needing that brings scarcity into your life.

Resisting Detachment Tip Five

Resisting detachment because you believe it means having an indifferent, non-caring attitude is wrong. Period. In fact being detached means just the opposite. It means loving unconditionally and not being judgemental about your family, friends and anyone else who happens to come into your surroundings.

Detaching from this belief gives you the freedom to let situations, ideas and circumstances be free to do what they are going to do, and people to be who they are going to be, without judgement from you.

Resisting Is Easy But Don't Force Yourself

Resisting detachment is real easy. It's easier to resist than to change years of ingrained beliefs about your life and what detaching can bring you. However, if this is something you don't think you're ready for, then by all means, don't pursue it.

Don't force yourself to detach from the things you deem vital to your existence. For now, just wait and examine these attachments and their importance to you. Acknowledge your feelings and don't judge yourself. Give yourself and your feelings unconditional love and then move on until you are ready for detachment.



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