Getting What You Desire Entails Being
Detached From That Desire
Practicing Detachment Takes Away The
Power Your Visualization Has Over You
Getting what you desire will not be easy when it means being
detached from the very things you desire, but practicing
detachment means having control and power over your desires or
visualizations, because they should never have control over you!
Detachment - The Key to Getting What
You Desire By L. Barrett Powell
Emotions. We all have them. They can cover a wide range. We can
choose to hide them or express them. But the most important thing
you can do is detach from them if you want to achieve what we
desire.
In order to successfully attract something, you must be detached
to the outcome. If you are attached to the outcome of something
you desire, you project the negative emotions of panic,
disbelief, distrust, pessimism, fear or yearning which actually
attracts the opposite of your goal. When you project these
negative emotions you are functioning from a position of fear,
anxiety, and doubt instead of confidence, trust, belief, trust
and peace.
Attachment
What is attachment? Attachment is being POWERLESS. When you devote all or most of
your energy and time to something, you are attached to it. When
you look to the external, to outside sources, to complete you, to
make you whole, to provide your happiness and fulfillment, you
are attached and powerless. You have abandoned your source, your
core, your self. You have enslaved yourself to the situation or
to another person.
Attachment creates insecurity. You spend your time worrying if
you will get what you want and if you get some of it you worry
about how you will maintain it and whether you will lose it.
Attachment occurs when we demand that everything be known to us.
It is an attachment to the known. We demand, fret and get angry
over not knowing how something will be achieved. We lack trust
and have no faith.
Attachment sets you up for days and nights of crying, worrying,
raging, feeling jealous, overeating and feeling sorry for
yourself.
Detachment
What is detachment? Detachment is being POWERFUL. It is when you
let go and let God (or the Universe or whatever you want to call
it). It is when you step back and decide that whatever the
outcome - and the journey to that outcome - you will grow, learn
and in the end, have something good. Yes, you may get exactly
what you want or no, you may not but instead you will get
something quite satisfying. Detachment is deciding that either
way, you will be pleased with the outcome. You are getting what you desire.
Have you noticed that sometimes the harder you try to work out
something the worse the situation gets? That is when you are
being told to detach. When you use force you create new problems.
When you allow God/the Universe to work, achievement is
effortless.
The best thing for you to do is to take
control...
When and where you can and when you meet the wall of resistance
that tell you to release - release!! The situation will work out
and you can sit back and reap the fruits/profits etc.
Being detached permits you to change your focus and shift to
something new if necessary. It means you can go with the flow,
without giving up on your intention. It means getting what you desire.
You do not need a rigid, inflexible, detailed plan laid before
about how you will get what you want. When you surf the waves of
the unknown and let uncertainty wash around you, you become
flexible, spontaneous, and open to a wide range of opportunities
that can be blessings to you. You have experiences you might not
have had otherwise and meet people you would not have otherwise
encountered.
Detachment means realizing that God/the Universe is delivering
good things to you and doing good things through other persons
and you. It means realizing there is nothing you need to force.
It's all good. It means getting what you desire!
With this in mind, do you realize you can have anything through
detachment?
A home. A car. A mate. A job
Embrace your desire and intentions but do not cling to them.
State your intentions and desires and rest knowing they will be
accomplished.
The Law of Attraction tells us that what we experience is a
result of what we feel; it is a result of our attitude. If we are
detached from the outcome, feeling calm and know that the outcome
will be a good one, we will get a good outcome.
You may not get the specific job or boyfriend you wanted, but you
will get a fantastic job or a boyfriend who loves you so deeply
you, and you him, that you cannot imagine life without him!
Remember, whatever you detach from has no
power over you...
Rather you have absolute power over it. For example, if you
desire a loving and intimate relationship with a particular man
who makes himself emotionally and physically unavailable, right
now, detach.
State your intention and desire to have a loving, intimate
relationship with this man, but detach knowing that you will
either get a loving and intimate relationship with this man or he
will be replaced with someone wonderful who will make you forget
all about this emotionally unavailable man. You will get what you desire.
In that case, that unavailable man is the loser in this situation
if he does not awaken and see you value; you are have lost
nothing of value if he does not! Along the journey you can be
open and flexible enough to learn about yourself and why you were
attracted to an emotionally unavailable man. See? You grow
emotionally and spiritually and you get a great relationship -
all by practicing detachment.
Achieve your intentions from a position of power. Detach and let
it all work out. It's all good!
L. Barrett Powell is an international coach and cultural
trainer/consultant with an academic background and experience in
psychology, theology and journalism. Barrett's focus is on
Success and Law of Attraction coaching. She lives and works with
individuals and inter-cultural organizations in the USA and
Europe as a coach, coordinator and trainer. Visit her website a
www.lbarrettpowell.com
or contact her by
email at lbpdkcoaching@gmail.com.
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