The process of detaching emotionally is another aspect of the
Law of Attraction, one most people have major issues with.
Being in a state of non-attachment or detached to the outcome
of your visualizations is simply allowing things to unfold
according to how the universe knows best.
Law Of Detachment - Flowing With God By Enoch Tan
There is another Law in conscious creation of reality that is
as equally important to understand as the Law of Attraction. It
is the Law of Detachment. It is this Law that gives the crucial
distinction in utilizing the Law of Attraction successfully.
The Law of Detachment is complimentary to the Law of
Attraction.
The Law of Detachment says that in order to successfully
attract something, you must be detached to the outcome. If you
are attached, you project negative emotions of fear, doubt, or
craving which actually attracts the opposite of your desire.
You are operating from a position of worry, fear and doubt
rather than serenity, trust and faith. Of course there are
times when negative emotions are meant to be felt and acted
upon, but your dominant emotions should be positive ones.
Let go and let God
Anything you want can be acquired through detaching emotionally, because
detachment is based on resting in the complete grace of God and
knowing that He is always working everything through you and
together for your greatest good. To be detached is to realize
that everything good is from God and nothing at all is from
you. It is God doing it through you and the other elements in
your reality so there's nothing to hold on to as your own, all
you have to do is to have the right beliefs and let God do it.
Ease and perfection of action depend entirely upon the degree
in which we cease to depend upon the consciousness. You have to
take your conscious mind off it in order to let your
subconscious mind take over.
The pilot and the autopilot cannot control the plane at the
same time. You have to let go in order to let God take over. To
detach is to allow the universe to bring your desire into
manifestation whichever way is best for you. When you are
detached, your desires will manifest much faster.
To be attached means to be powerless because what you attach
yourself to, you give your power to it. When you look to
outside sources to bring you fulfillment, you are giving your
power away. When you are looking to something outside yourself
for power and happiness, you are making something other than
your true self your source. Detach knowing that whatever you
detach from has no power over you, but you have complete power
over it.
Attachment to anything will always create
insecurity
No matter how much of it you have. In fact, some of the people
who have the most of what they want are the most insecure.
Attachment to something makes you wonder if you will keep
having it or if your may lose it. Insecurity causes
unhappiness.
The search for security and certainty is actually an attachment
to the known. There's no evolution in that, absolutely none at
all. And when there is no evolution, there is stagnation,
entropy, disorder, and disintegration.
Uncertainty and the unknown is the field of all possibilities
or pure potential. It is ever fresh, ever new, always open to
the creation of new manifestations. It is the realm of pure
creativity and freedom. When you are attached, your intention
gets locked into a rigid mindset and you lose the fluidity, the
flexibility, and the spontaneity inherent in the field of pure
potential.
When you experience uncertainty, you are
on the right path so don't give it up
You don't need to have a complete and rigid idea of what you'll
be doing next week or next year, because if you have a very
clear idea of what's going to happen and you get rigidly
attached to it, then you shut out a whole range of
possibilities.
Realize that there is an infinite intelligence working
alongside your own and it is the one that can bring you a
better way or more worthwhile experience. All you have to do is
state your intentions and desires and detach from the how and
when they manifest.
Are there times when you want to work something out, but yet
the more you try to work it out, the worse it gets? When God
works, it is effortless. God arranges the situations for you
when you are not in it, so that when you step in, you
experience the blessings.
It is so much better to depend on God than to depend on your
own strength. Unless the Lord builds the house, they that labor
do so in vain. What you can control, you should control. What
you can't control, you should let go and let God. When you
trust God, everything is under control.
God will never deny our request because whatever we want for
ourselves we can manifest. But to experience nonresistance and
effortless accomplishment, we must surrender to the will of the
Universe who only wants for us nothing but the best for we are
the beloved children of the Creator who wants us to have it
all. As Jesus reminds us, "it is your Father's good pleasure to
give you the kingdom."
You may have the intention of going in a
certain direction...
But between point A and point B there are infinite
possibilities. With uncertainty factored in, you might change
direction in any moment if you find a higher ideal, or
something more worthwhile pursuing.
You are also less likely to force solutions on problems, which
enables you to stay alert to opportunities. One door seems
closed, but there is another open. What you want can always
come in another way. God never closes a door without opening
another one, so we need to stay alert to see whatever new
opportunities life presents us.
Imagine you found a job you're looking for. It looks like the
job you want, and it appears the odds are in your favor as you
move from interview to interview within the office, yet at the
last minute they choose to hire someone else.
If you are detached then you trust that another opportunity,
the right opportunity is on its way. However, if you are so
attached to getting that job for whatever reason, you cause
yourself lots of anxiety and stress if you don't get it, which
means you are looking for this job as an outside source to
fulfill you on some level.
The Law of Detachment accelerates the whole process of
evolution. When you understand this law, you don't feel
compelled to force solutions. When you force solutions on
problems, you only create new problems. But when you wait
patiently and in faith, the right solution will arise on its
own. Confusion is the doorway to a new understanding. Order
will emerge from the chaos.
We must have goals otherwise we are
denying our inner desires...
Cutting ourselves off from growth and development. Goals
inspire us to live, create and move forward. If we are not
doing this, we are dying on the inside. We want to embrace
desires and intentions but we just don't want to cling to them.
Of course, we all want to realize our goals and desires,
however if realizing them is the source of our well-being, the
source of our happiness or worthiness we will fail!
We have all heard of or know the classic stereotypes called
overachievers who appear to have it all, the money, the fame,
the status, only to be miserable on the inside. They've been
setting and realizing goals all their lives, and are still
miserable.
This is why detaching emotionally is so crucial. When you don't have to
have this thing in order to be well, or be happy, then you can
let go and enjoy the process. Understand it is the process that
is the joy, because the minute we realize our goal, we are
going to be setting new goals.
There is no realization of any goal that is going to be the
completion of us, once we realize one goal we are going to keep
moving forward, we are evolutionary beings. I am sure you have
all experienced this. There is no way that the realization of
goals is the source of our peace of mind or wholeness.
The purpose of life is growth
Life without progress becomes unbearable. It is the cycle of
continuous progress that makes us happy. We are Energy Beings
and energy is always in motion. To live is to keep moving and
flowing. When we stop we die. Nothing rests, everything moves.
Only at the highest rate of movement where God is flowing
continually in us is there rest.
We learn from the law of attraction that all we experience is
the result of what we feel. When we feel undesirable feelings,
we attract undesirable experiences. Realize that when we feel
undesirable feelings, it is because we are in a state of
attachment to certain things that create those feelings. Break
away from the attachment, stop worrying and bothering about it.
Have not a care, act like it doesn't matter and your feelings
will be liberated to more positive ones of fun, joy and peace.
The truth about States in NLP is really all about being in or
out of alignment with your Higher Self. When you are in
alignment, you experience all your desired states such as
happiness, confidence, freedom, joy, peace, fulfillment,
empowerment.
When you are not in alignment, you
experience all your undesired states...
Such as worry, fear, anxiety, uncertainty, weakness,
frustration, depression and disempowerment. So in essence,
there are only two states, a state of alignment and a state of
misalignment.
The Higher Self is the divine and universal aspect of God in
us. Paul says "in my flesh wells nothing good", but not "in my
spirit". Our spirit is the universal spirit of God. The image
of God.
No one else can take the place of your center except two
persons. Christ in you and you in Christ. Anyone else that is
close the center of your heart can only be allowed to orbit
around the center and not placed in it. You are not to be
attached to anyone or anything. To be in a state of
non-attachment is to be like God. God is unattached to
everything, he allows his creation to be free. If it wasn't so,
He wouldn't give anything free will.
Have not a care in the world
Be free spirited and carefree. Have fun, play the game.
Remember there are no rules and there are no limits. Just have
the attitude of doing something and then seeing what happens.
Be in a position where you have nothing to lose. We are beings
of evolution. It doesn't matter whether the past experience was
good or not. Keep moving on to the next one.
Some of the best things you desire just seem to happen to you
when you are in a total "I don't give a damn" mode. And while
it is happening, it is no big deal to you and it doesn't
matter. But you acknowledge the paradox of what's going on in
the situation, that you get what you want when you don't really
seem to want it.
Be insistent yet detached. You focus on what you want,
expecting it to happen and even when it didn't happen, it
doesn't matter. Have a detached involvement. There is a fine
line between caring in a detached way and being truly uncaring.
Just like there is a fine line between perfect good and perfect
evil. Because the opposite ends of a polarity spectrum are
really just next to each other.
Detachment does not mean we feel nothing
Detachment is not apathy or indifference. Detaching emotionally feels
freeing! When we are successfully detached from the outcome we
feel like the Universe has our back, like all is well, like we
can trust in our greater good, like we are absolutely certain
that all that we desire is already ours.
It is essential to intentional creation to get into a feeling
place of peaceful expectation that what we want is already at
hand. As long as we are 'attached' we will continue to focus on
the negative aspects of what we don't want and the fears that
come up as we doubt our ability to manifest.
Do not engage in something if it is the only option you feel
you have. You are being attached. You will be disappointed and
mentally shifted out of alignment with your center, if the
thing you want to do is not available for one reason or another
at the time you want to do it.
Create several other good options to take on in place of it at
the time as well before you choose to engage in it. When you go
ahead and do it in that manner, you will most likely get what
you want because your energies are right.
Enlightenment is a state of non-attachment
It is the realization that all suffering is burning energy on
the uncontrollable. To be unattached is emotional freedom and
psychological stability. Keep you thoughts flowing. As long as
there is flow, there is abundance. The moment you rest at any
place, you stagnate and there is lack.
We are beings of evolution. When we accomplish goals, we set
new goals. We either progress or regress, we never stand still.
We feel like we are dying if we are not growing, and collapsing
if we are not expanding. When you keep advancing, your
intelligence and knowledge will be in effect. When you become
attached, your intelligence and knowledge will be of no effect.
To be in grace is to live in the truth that all things flow
from God through you and so there is nothing to cling on to as
yours. To be under the law is to be enslaved by the yoke of
bondage which is attachment.
To be attached is to fall from grace
because you are trying to hold on to emptiness...
And are no longer flowing. When you are attached, Christ your
Higher Self is of no effect unto you. When you are detaching emotionally,
you acknowledge that you are using God's power and not your
own.
The more you are unattached, the more you allow God to flow in
you and the more rapidly your desires will manifest because
your Energy and vibrations are more aligned with the flow of
God's Energy and therefore that which you desire in your life.
It is an enlightened way of living your life. You have to let
go and trust that life itself is taking you to the things you
desire. As you let go and trust, you feel different, you
radiate a different vibration to the world, and better things
and experiences come to you Again, the whole secret is in
learning to simply let go.
Learn to follow the quiet voice within
that speaks in feelings rather than words
Follow what you hear inside, rather than what others may be
telling you to do. The universe itself will act to move you to
what you want, and move what you want to you. All you have to
do is let go, while acting on your inner prompts. Let go of
fear, doubt, worry, disappointment, and any other negative
emotion that might make you feel low.
Being unattached gives you the ability to drop whatever it is
you are focusing upon at the moment and focus on something new.
It makes you able to switch your concentration from one thing
to another. It keeps your consciousness in flow and not fixed
at any spot so it can be free and spontaneous in experiencing
unfoldment.
Effectively applying the law of attraction requires both desire
and acceptance. Practicing the law of detachment is how we can
accept and expect what we desire. The two laws work
harmoniously to support us in effectively applying the power of
our minds and the universal laws of creation.
Every problem you experience in life is an
opportunity...
For you to gain precious awareness that you do not already
possess. A problem is an experience with a lesson to learn. The
lesson contains the valuable awareness that will increase the
sum total of your soul's knowledge, that empowers you to a
greater level of living and being. The key to learning the
lesson is in perception and lateral thinking. Be flexible and
have an open mind. You will find the solution that you are
happy with.
We are all instruments of God whether yielded or unyielded.
When we are yielded, we are of more use and become more
powerful instruments and also enjoy the process with greater
happiness. Do not care, just surrender yourself to the flow of
God.
It is flowing all the time and when you are ready, it will flow
through you. When you are detaching emotionally, you are trusting and
surrendering to God. Anytime you are not detached, you are not
trusting, not surrendering and not yielding to God.
The law of detachment explains why
productivity increases...
When a person takes frequent breaks from work. Being able to
constantly walk away from what you are doing puts you in a
state of rest and thereby able to continuously reconnect with
the flow of God by keeping your energy in motion and your mind
afresh.
You may have stepped out from the flow for a while and feel
lost and break in momentum, but the flow is always there and
you can step back into it again and it will be perfect.
About the Author:
Enoch Tan aims to help people achieve greater awareness in
living and experiencing life, to evolve human consciousness to
higher levels and to revolutionize the way we understand the
mind and reality, because that is what governs every area of
life and destiny.
When you learn Secrets of Mind and Reality which is the science
behind all Self Help, you'll become a Law of Attraction and
Manifestation Master. Visit the site: Secrets of Mind and Reality
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