A relationship that lasts forever? I'm reading an article about Jennifer Aniston and her
comments about her break-up with Brad Pitt. This article apparently appears in the December
issue of Vogue, as relayed by MSN News. Her feelings about her relationships
and her life is this, and I quote:
"Whoever said everything has to be forever, that's setting your hopes too high. It's too
much pressure. And I think if you put that pressure on yourself -- because I did! Fairy
tale! It has to be the right one! -- that's unattainable.
This whole 'Poor lonely Jen' thing, this idea that I'm so unlucky in love? I actually
feel I've been unbelievably lucky in love. Just because at this stage my life doesn't
have the traditional framework to it -- the husband and the two kids and the house in
Connecticut -- it's mine.
It's my experience. And if you don't like the way it looks, then stop looking at it!
Because I feel good. I don't feel like I'm supposed to be any further along or somewhere
that I'm not. I'm right where I'm supposed to be."
Does any of this sound familiar to any of you when it comes to your life, especially
your love life?
There's more however, please read on about her relationship with John Mayer, who,
according to Vogue, broke up with her. Here's what was written:
"We care about each other," she shares. "I deeply, deeply care about him; we talk,
we adore one another. And that's where it is."
And Vogue had this to say:
"Still, we're not betting on a happily-ever-after given her thoughts on the crooner's
post-breakup indiscretion, when he publicly announced that he'd dumped her "because I
don't want to waste somebody's time if something's not right."
I feel very strongly that we project and create the type of relationships we will have
with family, friends and lovers. Whatever you feel and believe will be reflected in
your relationships.
But know that Ms. Aniston is not alone. I've known and still know men and women who
keep attracting the same type of people and relationships into their lives, because
this is what they feel and believe their lives should be.
As long as a person believes an abusive partner loves them and that this is how it
should be, then that person is doomed to attract those kinds of people and relationships.
As long as a person believes they are un-loveable, and that the only reason someone
would love them is because of their money, or looks or what they can do for the other
person - then this is the only kind of relationship they will ever attract.
So, if you, like Ms. Aniston, believes you're where you should be in your life and
relationships. And that relationships don't last forever... that it's a fairy tale
that is unattainable. Then more than likely, that is exactly what you will get.
A relationship that doesn't last, because it's a fairytale that is unattainable.
Your thoughts and beliefs do become things. They become your life and your relationships,
and I don't believe it's any more pressure to set your hopes high for a loving, loyal
and lasting relationship - than it is to hoping you'll get the next part in a hit TV show!
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